Top Tips for Intimate Care - SLT and Governance

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Delivering intimate care safely and respectfully is a whole-school responsibility. In the first of our 3-part series, we focus on the role of senior leaders and governors. Here are our top tips which outline the essential elements of effective management:

PART 1: The role of Senior Leaders and Governors

  1. Have a Clear, Updated Intimate Care Policy
  • Ensure the school has a stand-alone Intimate Care Policy reviewed annually and approved by governors;
  • The policy must align with KCSIE, Working Together to Safeguard Children, DfE SEND Code of Practice, and local safeguarding partnership procedures;
  • Include definitions, roles, consent, supervision, recording, safe practice guidelines, and communication with parents;
  • Policies must be easily accessible to staff, parents, and visitors.
  1. Provide Personalised, Agreed Care Plans
  • Every child requiring intimate care must have an Individual Intimate Care Plan (or part of their Individual Healthcare Plan);
  • Plans should be created collaboratively with parents, SENCO, DSL, healthcare professionals (if relevant), and the child (where appropriate);
  • Plans should state: What support is needed; Preferred language/approach; Equipment and adaptations; Staff involved; Specific medical needs; Manual handling requirements;
  • Review plans at least termly or sooner if needs change.
  1. Ensure Staff Are Properly Trained

Provide regular, high-quality training for staff delivering intimate care to include:

  • Safeguarding and child protection;
  • Manual handling;
  • Usage of specialist equipment (e.g., hoists, slings, changing beds);
  • Infection control & hygiene;
  • Dignity, communication & consent;
  • Keep a training matrix and ensure only staff who are trained and authorised undertake intimate care.
  1. Maintain Strong Safeguarding Practices

Ensure intimate care procedures reflect safeguarding expectations:

  • Maintain professional boundaries;
  • Always work in line with the Behaviour Policy, Code of Conduct, and Allegations Against Staff procedures;
  • Consider two-person availability for certain intimate care situations, but avoid unnecessary invasion of privacy;
  • DSL should be consulted if any aspect of care raises a concern. Governors should monitor that safeguarding and intimate care policies are aligned.
  1. Create a Safe, Private but Observable Environment

Provide appropriately equipped intimate care facilities that allow privacy but maintain safety:

  • Doors that can be closed but not locked;
  • Visibility panels/frosted glass as appropriate;
  • Adequate space for mobility support;
  • Cleaning schedules are clearly recorded;
  • Ensure equipment is regularly checked, serviced, and safe for use.
  1. Promote Dignity, Respect, and the Child's Voice
  • Children must be supported with dignity at all times;
  • Encourage independence where safely possible;
  • Seek the child’s views about their care and incorporate them into the care plan;
  • Avoid assumptions, where possible ask and involve the child;
  • Ensure staff are sensitive to gender, cultural, and religious considerations.
  1. Ensure Clear Communication With Parents/Carers
  • Share the Intimate Care Policy with parents and involve them in care plan creation;
  • Establish routines for informing parents about changes, accidents, or incidents;
  • Record any disagreements or parental concerns and resolve collaboratively.
  1. Implement Robust Recording and Reporting

Senior leaders must ensure consistent documentation. All intimate care provided should be recorded:

  • Date and time;
  • Staff present;
  • What intimate care was carried out;
  • Equipment used;
  • Any issues or concerns e.g. marks, bruises, unusual behaviour.
  • Ensure immediate reporting to DSL for: Unusual behaviour;
  • Marks; bruises; injuries;
  • Safety issues with equipment or environment.
  1. Ensure Staffing Ratios and Deployment Are Safe
  • Leaders must ensure sufficient, reliable staffing so that intimate care is not rushed, delayed, or completed unsafely;
  • At least two staff should be trained and available for each child’s needs to avoid reliance on a single individual;
  • Governors should monitor staffing levels as part of SEND and safeguarding oversight;
  1. Manage Risk Through Correct Equipment and Resources
  • Provide appropriate: PPE (gloves, aprons);
  • Changing beds, hoists, slings;
  • Accessible toilets;
  • Disposal systems for waste;
  • Emergency equipment (e.g., call bells);
  • Conduct regular risk assessments for individual needs and for the intimate care environment.
  1. Ensure Equality, Inclusion, and Non-Discrimination
  • Ensure intimate care supports full access to the curriculum, trips, and extra-curricular activities;
  • Staff must avoid language or approaches that stigmatise or infantilise;
  • Reasonable adjustments must be in place in line with the Equality.
  1. Conduct Monitoring and Quality Assurance

Governors and leaders should: Monitor records and incident forms; Audit training and equipment checks; Review care plans regularly; Gather pupil and parent feedback.

  1. Build a Culture of Trust, Safety, and Respect
  • Ensure staff feel confident to raise concerns or ask for help;
  • Promote a culture where intimate care is understood as a professional, respected, and essential part of inclusion, not an afterthought;
  • Governors should champion dignified care as part of the school’s ethos.

Whilst not an exhaustive list, the above top tips are designed to support leadership and governance to help develop and ensure robust systems, training, and a strong safeguarding culture is in place.

SSS Learning

24 November 2025